It is our failure to become our perceived ideal, that ultimately defines us and makes us unique. It is not easy, but if you accept your misfortune and handle it right, Your perceived failure can become a catalyst for profound reinvention.

He said this during his commencement speech at Dartmouth. You should watch the video. I wish that he could have been the speaker at my graduation!

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=KmDYXaaT9sA